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Start With CASA

Where to Start When an Aging Parent Needs More Help

You may have noticed something different without knowing what it means. Use this roadmap for aging at home to organize your questions, explore relevant topics, and decide which concerns you want to understand more clearly.
Start the CASA Check-In
Begin With Concerns

Choose Your Reason for Visiting Today

I’m concerned about safety at home
Daily health routines need attention
Our family needs to think ahead
My parent’s memory seems different
My parent has fewer social connections
Supporting my parent feels demanding
WHEN SOMETHING CHANGES

Start with what needs attention first.

A fall, hospital stay, new diagnosis, medication issue, or sudden change in behavior can leave families trying to make several decisions at once.

Community Aging Support Alliance can help you slow the situation down and work through the immediate questions: what may need attention now, what information to gather, what changes to watch for, and what support might help once your loved one is back home and settling into a new routine.

You don’t have to solve everything at once. Start with the next step that matters most.

See Immediate Next Steps →
NOT SURE WHERE TO START?

Take the CASA Check-In

Sometimes the hardest part is knowing what actually deserves your attention.

Answer a few simple questions about your loved one’s routines, safety, memory, mobility, medications, and day-to-day independence. We’ll help you identify which areas may be worth looking at more closely and point you toward resources that fit what you’re noticing.

You don’t need to have a diagnosis, a care plan, or even a clear concern yet. This is simply a place to begin.
Start the 2-minute Check-In →
Describe Your Observations

Look More Closely at
Recent Changes

FALLS OR BALANCE

Is moving around feeling less steady?

Reaching for furniture, hesitating on steps, or avoiding usual walks may signal balance concerns. Ask when your parent feels unsteady and note examples to discuss with their healthcare professional.

Things to look for

  • Holding onto furniture while walking
  • Difficulty standing up or turning around
  • Recent trips, falls, or near misses
  • Avoiding activities because of fear of falling
Explore Balance Concerns →
MEMORY CHANGES

Are familiar moments raising new questions?

Your parent may repeat a question, forget a recent conversation, or lose track of a familiar task. Note specific examples alongside their own account of what happened.

Things to look for

  • Questions repeated within the same conversation
  • Familiar activities left unfinished more often
  • Uncertainty about dates or familiar surroundings
  • Memory difficulties your parent mentions themselves
Explore Memory Guidance →
MEDICATION CONFUSION

Which medication instructions feel unclear?

Similar packaging, changed instructions, or refill arrangements may leave your parent uncertain about their medications. Gather the questions they want a pharmacist or prescribing professional to clarify.

Things to look for

  • Labels your parent finds difficult to read
  • Uncertainty about which instructions are current
  • Difficulty keeping track of refill dates
  • Questions about when a medication was taken
Review Medication Questions →
DRIVING

Have familiar journeys started feeling difficult?

Your parent might avoid certain roads, feel uneasy in traffic, or ask someone else to drive. Discuss specific experiences and what getting around independently means to them.

Things to look for

  • Avoiding journeys they previously made comfortably
  • Difficulty navigating once-familiar routes
  • Recent scrapes or incidents they mention
  • Concerns about visibility or busy intersections
Consider Driving Concerns →
HOME SAFETY

Does the house still fit everyday life?

A familiar room can become harder to use as everyday needs change. Walk through the home together and ask which spaces feel awkward and where access could be easier.

Things to look for

  • Belongings narrowing frequently used walking routes
  • Poor lighting near stairs or entrances
  • Everyday items stored beyond comfortable reach
  • Difficulty getting into the bath or shower
Examine Home Safety →
EATING OR NUTRITION

What is getting in the way of meals?

Shopping, opening containers, cooking, or eating alone may make mealtimes less appealing. Ask your parent which parts feel difficult and whether their appetite or enjoyment of food has changed.

Things to look for

  • Groceries running out between shopping trips
  • Food regularly left unused or uneaten
  • Difficulty preparing meals they usually enjoy
  • Discomfort with chewing or swallowing they report
Understand Mealtime Changes →
MANAGING APPOINTMENTS

Where do appointment arrangements break down?

Booking a visit, organizing transportation, and following preparation instructions involve different steps. Identify which part is most difficult before agreeing on reminders or practical help your parent would welcome.

Things to look for

  • Appointment details recorded in different places
  • Schedule changes that were not written down
  • Unconfirmed transportation close to the visit
  • Uncertainty about forms or preparation instructions
Organize Appointment Details →
CAREGIVER STRESS

How much of your week has become caregiving?

Calls, errands, and coordination can take more time than you realize. Consider how helping your parent affects your rest, commitments, and capacity to keep managing the current arrangement.

Things to look for

  • Personal plans repeatedly postponed for caregiving
  • Trouble resting while thinking about responsibilities
  • Feeling irritable or stretched by routine requests
  • Having nobody available to share essential tasks
Reflect on Caregiver Strain →
Pause And Reflect

Sort Your Questions Into Possible Next Steps

Answer a few questions about everyday life and the concerns that brought you here. Your responses can help direct you toward educational topics to explore. This check-in does not

What are you noticing?

Pick anything that has been on your mind. You can choose more than one.

A little about your parent

There are no wrong answers. This just helps us point you to the right place.

How is your parent managing day to day?
Has anything changed recently?
Where do they live?
How close are you?

YOUR CHECK-IN

Get your plan by email

We will email you this list, and a member of the CASA team can follow up with any questions.

MOST HELPFUL RIGHT NOW
9 resourcesHome & Safety8 resourcesMemory & Cognitive Changes9 resourcesFamily & Caregiving8 resourcesPlanning Ahead
Choose Your Focus

Begin Before Every
Question Has an Answer

01

Review Everyday
Surroundings

Walk through familiar spaces with your parent and discuss anything they find inconvenient or difficult. Explore educational resources about household access, daily movement, and potential safety concerns.
Explore Household Considerations →
02

Recognize Shifts in
Daily Life

Consider differences in routines, conversation, meals, or getting around. Find resources that help you describe specific observations and prepare questions without making assumptions about their cause.
Review Changes Across Daily Life →
03

Open Conversations About Tomorrow

Ask which preferences your parent wants others to understand. Explore topics that can help your family discuss future arrangements, identify missing information, and consider decisions together.
Begin Future Conversations →
The CASA Weekly

Build Your Understanding One Topic at a Time

Keep learning as your family’s questions develop. Receive educational articles and resources about aging at home, with subjects you can explore now or return to when they become relevant.
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Older woman and family caregiver discussing paperwork and future care arrangements together on a living room sofa.

What Changes When Your Parent Returns Home?

Hospital discharge may introduce unfamiliar challenges at home. New medication schedules, follow-up visits, and household adjustments can raise practical questions as your parent settles into daily life.
Explore Post-Hospital Home Adjustments →
Adult daughter helping her older mother write notes while discussing future care arrangements at home.

When Does Occasional Help Become Regular Caregiving?

An occasional errand may gradually become an ongoing responsibility. Recognize when small favors become regular commitments and how they change your role in the family.
Recognize Your Changing Role →

ASK CASA

Have a question about your parent?

Tell us what is going on. A member of the CASA team will reply by phone or email with guidance that fits your family.

No pressure. Just a place to start.

THE CASA WEEKLY

Be ready before you need to be

Practical guidance to help you spot changes earlier, ask better questions, and make more informed decisions as your loved one ages at home.

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