How can I help my elderly parents from a distance?
You can do a lot from far away. Build a team close to your parent, keep contacts and plans in one shared place and plan each visit with a short checklist so your time together counts.
The National Institute on Aging suggests these long-distance steps:
- Make a contact list. Keep neighbors, doctors and friends in a shared online document.
- Use a shared calendar so family members can split tasks.
- Join appointments remotely. With your parent’s permission, sit in on telehealth or care team calls.
- Plan visits ahead. Ask your parent what they want to do, then pick your top priorities.
On each visit, look at the fridge, the mail and the stairs. Our aging in place checklist can guide that walk-through.
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This answer is general information, not medical, legal or financial advice. Rules can vary by state.
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