FAQMemory & Cognitive ChangesNoticing Changes

Is forgetfulness in an older parent normal?

Quick answer · Updated November 2026

Some forgetfulness is a normal part of aging, like misplacing glasses now and then. Memory changes that disrupt daily life are not normal and should be checked by a doctor.

When to see a doctor

Not every memory problem is dementia. Medicine side effects, low vitamin B12, thyroid problems and depression can cause them too. These often get better once treated.

Offer to make the appointment and go with your parent. Bring notes on what you have seen. You can learn more in our memory and thinking changes section.

Sources

  1. nia.nih.gov

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