Is forgetfulness in an older parent normal?
Some forgetfulness is a normal part of aging, like misplacing glasses now and then. Memory changes that disrupt daily life are not normal and should be checked by a doctor.
When to see a doctor
- Asking the same questions over and over
- Getting lost in places they know well
- Trouble following a recipe or directions
- More confusion about time, people and places
Not every memory problem is dementia. Medicine side effects, low vitamin B12, thyroid problems and depression can cause them too. These often get better once treated.
Offer to make the appointment and go with your parent. Bring notes on what you have seen. You can learn more in our memory and thinking changes section.
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